Honestly speaking it is very difficult for parents to teach their children the value of brushing their teeth. A child’s common reaction tends to lean towards antagonism and refusal. This is because they do not comprehend the reason and logic behind brushing their teeth. If a child does not understand why he should do what a parent tells him to do, his tendency is to pull away. That is why the parents have to stop telling him what to do with his life. More specifically stop telling him to brush his teeth.


Communication is important when giving instructions to your children. If they do not understand why you want them to do something it would be difficult for you to make them do anything you want them to do. The best thing to do in these situations is to let the child be for now and find other ways to convey the message that you want to send.

In this case, if the parent wants to have the children brush their teeth that there are specific steps you need to do to be able to achieve this goal. First, you have to explain to your children why they need to brush their teeth regularly and explain the repercussions in a language that the children can understand. You have to realize that their cognition is not yet that developed and they need concrete explanations as to why do you need to do certain things.

If that does not work, you have to show them the advantages of doing such activities like brushing their teeth. If they see that there are many advantages and good aspects in this activity, it will be easier for them to accept the fact that the need to brush their teeth regularly. You would not have to force them to get the toothbrush anymore.

These advantages may include whiter teeth and stronger dental health among others. If they realize how good it is to brush their teeth every day, they are bound to do it on their own without you ever telling them to do so. Then it would be easier for you to introduce other ways for them to clean their teeth like flossing and using mouthwash.

In addition to this, another thing that you can do is to invite them frequently to brush their teeth with you. This way, you will be able to show him or her that there is nothing to be afraid of when it comes to brushing your teeth. You as a parent can make this habit a fun activity for you and your children. It can serve as bonding time for all of the family members.

As a last tip, you can also ask the help of a professional to explain to the children how beautiful it is to have clean and white teeth. You can ask the dentist or another friend to help you in solving this matter. A third party may be able to help you clearly send any message that you want to tell your children in the soonest possible time. As mentioned earlier, open communication is important in a parent-child relationship.

 Parents should always remember that no good could come out of forcing any child to do things that he or she clearly does not want to do. Therefore, you need to find creative ways as a parent to make your children understand the importance of the lessons that you want to teach them. If you do this, you and your child will absolutely have a closer relationship. This is something that every parent wants to have with his or her child.


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