My 3 year old is complaining of a tooth / gum ache on her upper left at the side. She has always been a bit awkward when it comes to teeth brushing but we do brush twice a day. However, for almost a week she has complained (only at tooth brushing time) when I try to brush her teeth and tells me not to brush up the top left. I did manage to see inside her mouth a few days ago when had brushed very gently and there were blood coming out of her mouth and there appeared to be a couple of ulcers up there so I put some orajel on but she said that didn't help. She just screamed, poor thing. I have not seen any blood since. I managed to look in her mouth this morning (only with her holding her mouth open) and the ulcers seemed to have gone but I did notice some slightly orange discoloration on 2 of her teeth. I don't really know what else to do. She has yet to go to the dentist for the first time and I know that she would be upset and probably not let anyone look inside her mouth, especially since she won't even let me do it. Please help!!